This is a very sensitive topic and a typical African woman when approached with the matter comes with a lot of shyness and embarrassment, that’s just the honest truth. When a woman is making love with her husband, lover, boyfriend, friends with benefits and she gets direct clitoral stimulation and is able to reach her pleasure spot which brings an overwhelming sensation that makes a woman feels she is in another planet hmmm! And she moves her body to the rhythm as the pleasure gets more intense and her sounds gets louder followed by an apparent release then That woman is definenatly not faking this particular orgasm. But my article is talking about the women who fake orgasm and the reasons why they fake it.
HERE ARE THE REASONS WHY SOME WOMEN FAKE ORGASM.
TOO YOUNG AND INEPERIENCED
This is one of the natural factors - when a girl, woman, young and inexperienced. Been inexperienced doesn’t necessarily mean these set of ladies is young just not exposed enough to know much about sex and lovemaking and the pleasure that goes with it, as per the young being disvirgined then having to meet a partner who would actually teach the woman about lovemaking and that she needs to learn more about her body and not been ashamed to have the feelings of an orgasm. Due to inexperience and being young and being with a partner who is very selfish this set of women will definitely fake an orgasm just even out of curiosity. It takes a caring and sensitive man to make them realize their body can give them intense pleasure with the right partner.
NOT IN THE MOOD FOR SEX:
Some set of women are not in the mood to have sex, it depends on the situation its either they are not happy with the man and don’t know how to tell him and don’t want to lose him so they endure. So most time when their man comes to have sex with them they do it with them and fake orgasm to make the men feel like a Don and the king.
TO HURRY UP AND GET DONE WITH IT:
Well some ladies when they are with their steady partners that they are sexually active with, they have gotten so used to their partner so they just want to have sex most times and get it done with very monogamous. In the process of their sexual intercourse their partner isn’t hitting their g-spot that would lead them to having a mind blowing orgasm so they fake it so they can move on to other things and probably work load to cook, or even go clubbing they just want the sex over and done with.
SEX NOT SATISFYING:
Some ladies who have been victims of sexual abuse as a young girl and probably from a dysfunctional family. Their mindset towards sex is already messed up, misguided views from their mum that sex is only for procreation and even some ladies make it hard for the men to discover their g-spot because of their frigidness and moral values, they even feel dirty when they find themselves moaning to sex at all, they feel it’s bad, they are getting wayward so this makes them not enjoy sex at all. These set of women who are equally married to rigid men might not fully enjoy the beautiful euphoria of intense lovemaking with their partners and give them orgasm because even the men might think their faking their orgasm is bad and that their wives will cheat on them so they are even mindful faking orgasm. And those who have worldly husband who has plenty mistresses fake so as not be look like a wood in bed whereas the man is the one not getting her g-spot cause he has other girlfriends.
TO PLEASE THEIR PARTNERS NOT TO HURT THEIR FEELINGS:
This is a major reason and most of these women would really want to be able to give their husband mind blowing sex, and keep him satisfied. And when in the process of having sex and their partner is not able to get across to their direct g-spot through the sexual positions they are used to, instead of telling the guy which would destroy his self esteem. She would fake the orgasm like mehnn she is really on fire with mind blowing orgasm sensations whereas she isn’t feeling anything especially when her man pays the bills. Instead of telling their man what pleasures them how they want it they feel their man might think they are having an affair. Been open with your partner is the key to discovering pleasure spots in your body you never imagine possible.
After all well said and done faking orgasm isn’t good for us women because we are denying ourselves the ultimate pleasure of lovemaking. God created it with a committed and loving partner. Sex is for matured minds and you would take your time to explore each other’s body to have a very satisfying sex life. Let your man discover your g-spot for you, don’t be shy and we are not in 1968 even then women became aware of their sexuality they were not completely primitive due to some ancient movies I have watched, women who inhibit themselves and hold on to grudges can’t fully enjoy sex. You have to let go, having a mind blowing orgasm is part of having a great sex life with your partner it’s very important for a relationship, so faking an orgasm one day the culprit will get tired and the truth will be out, not always a nice sight. Ladies faking orgasm sort out your mindset issue and look for caring and loving partners.Labels: latest, relationship
